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Not to love the missionary

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מִצְוָה לֹא תַעֲשֶׂה - Negative Commandment
Idolatry – עֲבוֹדָה זָרָה

The person who is the target of incitement to idol worship is not allowed to harbor any love or sympathy for one who urged him to abandon G‑d. Though we are commanded to love every Jew – even a sinner – an inciter is the exception to this rule.

This mitzvah forbids loving or showing affection to the mesit — the one who attempts to entice another Jew to idolatry. Unlike other commandments where we are told to love our fellow Jew, here the Torah makes an exception due to the unique severity of this sin. By distancing ourselves emotionally from the enticer, we cut off their influence and affirm absolute loyalty to Hashem.

Commentary & Classical Explanation:

  • Rambam (Hilchot Avodat Kochavim 5:2): Teaches that one may not love or even show friendship to an enticer, since their entire intent is to uproot faith.
  • Sefer HaChinuch (Mitzvah 463): The root is to fortify belief in Hashem and prevent any softening toward those who threaten the nation’s spiritual core.
  • Talmud (Sanhedrin 67a): Rules that the enticer to idolatry is treated with unparalleled severity, with no protection afforded to him.
(Source: Chabad.org)
לֹא־תֹאבֶ֣ה ל֔וֹ וְלֹ֥א תִשְׁמַ֖ע אֵלָ֑יו וְלֹא־תָח֤וֹס עֵֽינְךָ֙ עָלָ֔יו וְלֹֽא־תַחְמֹ֥ל וְלֹֽא־תְכַסֶּ֖ה עָלָֽיו׃ - פָּרָשַׁת רְאֵה
Deuteronomy 13:9 - "You shall not desire him, and you shall not hearken to him; neither shall you pity him, have mercy upon him, nor shield him."

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