It is forbidden to love or show affection toward one who entices to idolatry.
This mitzvah forbids loving the mesit — the missionary who entices others to idolatry. Even natural bonds of kinship or friendship must not lead one to affection for such a person. Rambam (Hilchot Avodat Kochavim 5:2) rules that the Torah commands complete severance, since affection weakens resistance to persuasion.
The Talmud (Sanhedrin 67a–b) describes how the mesit is judged with extraordinary stringency because of the danger he poses to Israel’s faith. Sefer HaChinuch (Mitzvah 463) explains that loving the enticer erodes the very foundation of emunah, making the mitzvah a safeguard to preserve loyalty to Hashem. Rashi (Deut. 13:9) comments that the Torah explicitly prohibits affection because idolatry often spreads through emotional attachment, not intellectual persuasion. Ramban adds that the severity underscores the radical loyalty demanded in matters of avodah zarah. Midrash (Sifrei Devarim 87) portrays the mesit as spiritually poisonous, whose influence must be cut off at its root.
Commentary & Classical Explanation:
Contrast with Mitzvah 36 (Not to missionize another):
Parallel to Mitzvah 38–41 (Not to cease hating, not to save, not to defend, not to conceal):
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