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To cleave to those who know Him

The Luchos - Ten Commandments
אֶת־יְהֹוָ֧ה אֱלֹהֶ֛יךָ תִּירָ֖א אֹת֣וֹ תַעֲבֹ֑ד וּב֣וֹ תִדְבָּ֔ק וּבִשְׁמ֖וֹ תִּשָּׁבֵֽעַ׃ - פָּרָשַׁת עֵקֶב
Deuteronomy 10:20: You shall fear the Lord, your God, worship Him, and cleave to Him and swear by His Name.

This Mitzvah's Summary

מִצְוָה עֲשֵׂה - Positive Commandment
מִצְוָה לֹא תַעֲשֶׂה - Negative Commandment
Core Beliefs – יְסוֹדוֹת הָאֱמוּנָה

We are commanded to cleave to Hashem by attaching ourselves to His Torah scholars and those who embody His ways.

This mitzvah commands Israel to “cleave to Hashem.” The Sages asked: How can one cleave to the Divine, Who is “a consuming fire”? (Deut. 4:24). The Talmud (Ketubot 111b, Pesachim 49b) explains that one fulfills this by cleaving to Torah sages — marrying their daughters, engaging in business with them, and learning from their conduct. Rambam (Sefer HaMitzvot, Aseh 6; Hilchot De’ot 6:2) codifies this as a practical command to associate with those who exemplify Divine wisdom, for through them one draws near to Hashem.

Sefer HaChinuch (Mitzvah 434) emphasizes that Torah is embodied not only in books but in living people who transmit it. Clinging to them means absorbing their humility, wisdom, and sanctity, thereby cultivating one’s own spiritual life. Rashi (Deut. 11:22) interprets “cleaving” as staying close to sages and disciples, since their ways are Hashem’s ways. Midrash Tanchuma adds that connection to tzaddikim is itself connection to Hashem, as they are vessels of His presence in the world.

Commentary & Classical Explanation:

  • Rambam (Hilchot De’ot 6:2): To cleave to Hashem means to join with His sages, for they embody His ways.
  • Sefer HaChinuch (434): Cleaving to sages refines character and elevates faith, since they are living Torah.
  • Talmud (Ketubot 111b, Pesachim 49b): Cleaving to Hashem is done by marrying the daughters of sages, doing business with them, and learning from them.
  • Rashi (Deut. 11:22): Interprets “to cleave” as staying close to Torah scholars.
  • Midrash Tanchuma (Re’eh §3): Closeness to tzaddikim is closeness to the Shechinah itself.

Contrast with Walking in Hashem’s Ways (Mitzvah 11):

  • Mitzvah 11 focuses on imitating Hashem directly. Mitzvah 12 focuses on attaching to those who embody His ways, thereby ensuring continuity.
  • Rambam explains that since humans cannot cleave to Hashem directly, we cleave to His sages who reflect Him.
  • Sefer HaChinuch highlights that both mitzvot are complementary: imitation of Hashem and imitation of His servants.

Parallel to Honoring Torah Teachers (Mitzvah 23):

  • Just as honoring Torah teachers expresses reverence for Torah, cleaving to them expresses devotion to Hashem Himself.
  • Talmud (Pesachim 22b) equates the honor of sages with the honor of Heaven.
  • Ramban (Deut. 10:20) explains that both mitzvot safeguard the chain of tradition and ensure Torah remains alive in every generation.
(Source: Chabad.org)

Applying this Mitzvah Today

Choosing Torah-Centered Relationships

  • Rambam (Hilchot De’ot 6:1) writes that one’s path is shaped by their companions, and cleaving to sages ensures that one’s behavior follows Torah. In today’s world, this mitzvah guides us to seek friendships, mentors, and communities rooted in Torah values.

Learning from Living Examples

  • Talmud (Ketubot 111b) teaches that true deveikut (clinging) to Hashem is achieved by clinging to Torah scholars — eating, drinking, and living with them to absorb their ways. Today, this means not just reading Torah but modeling life on those who embody it.

Mentorship and Guidance

  • Sefer HaChinuch (Mitzvah 612) explains that this mitzvah roots one’s growth in attaching to people of wisdom, since character is shaped more by role models than by study alone. In modern terms, mentorship, chavruta study, and rabbinic guidance bring this mitzvah alive.

Spiritual Community

  • Ramban (Deut. 11:22) comments that cleaving to Hashem through sages creates holy networks where faith and wisdom thrive. In practice today, this means joining communities where Torah study, prayer, and chesed are central.

Counteracting Secular Influence

  • Midrash (Sifrei Devarim §49) warns that the opposite of this mitzvah is cleaving to the wicked, which leads to downfall. In today’s global culture of media saturation and peer pressure, this mitzvah directs Jews to filter influences, prioritizing teachers and communities that uplift.

Transmission of Torah Across Generations

  • Rambam (Sefer HaMitzvot, Aseh 6) says cleaving to sages ensures Torah is not abstract but embodied. Today, learning with elders, scholars, and teachers preserves living mesorah, transmitting Torah heart-to-heart.

Notes on this Mitzvah's Fundamentals

Faith – אֱמוּנָה

  • Rambam (Sefer HaMitzvot, Aseh 6) stresses that clinging to Torah sages is an act of faith, for their lives demonstrate trust in Hashem. Faith becomes embodied when one sees how scholars live, pray, and decide matters according to Torah. Sefer HaChinuch (434) explains that true faith is not abstract but imitated: “By attaching to the wise, the heart learns to cleave to Hashem.” Midrash (Sifrei Deut. §49) notes that Israel’s faith is safeguarded by such attachments, for the sage becomes a living testimony that Hashem governs the world through Torah.

Torah – תּוֹרָה

  • Talmud (Pesachim 49b) commands marrying into Torah families and joining in business with sages, since Torah is absorbed through closeness, not just study. Ramban (Deut. 11:22) clarifies that “cleaving to sages” means cleaving to Torah, because their wisdom is the living expression of Hashem’s word. Midrash Rabbah (Deut. 7:3) explains that the Oral Torah is preserved by sages who embody it; attaching to them is attaching to Torah itself.

Community – קְהִלָּה

  • Midrash Tanchuma (Re’eh §3) teaches that the Shechinah dwells among a community that attaches itself to tzaddikim. Rambam (Hilchot De’ot 6:2) adds that cleaving to sages means joining their circles — their beit midrash, their meals, and their communal life — making holiness communal rather than individual. Sefer HaChinuch (434) emphasizes that this mitzvah builds a kehilla where values flow from teachers to students and from leaders to the nation, ensuring Torah is woven into the social fabric.

Holiness – קְדֻשָּׁה

  • Ramban (Deut. 10:20) explains that cleaving to sages draws a person into holiness, for they are consecrated vessels of Torah. The Talmud (Ketubot 111b) states that by clinging to scholars one “clings to the Shechinah,” making holiness accessible to ordinary people. Midrash Tanchuma (Ki Tavo §3) teaches that Hashem’s holiness is reflected through His servants’ deeds, meaning attachment to them elevates daily life into sacred service.

Humility – עֲנָוָה

  • The Talmud (Avot 4:12) advises: “Sit in the dust of the sages’ feet and drink their words with thirst.” This portrays not only reverence but humility before Torah wisdom. Rambam (De’ot 2:3) explains that humility is the hallmark of sages, and attaching to them trains one in this most essential virtue. Midrash Rabbah (Num. 11:16) shows Hashem Himself sharing His spirit with the elders in humility, a model for leaders and followers alike.

Love – אַהֲבָה

  • Talmud (Ketubot 111b) describes cleaving to sages through marriage and familial bonds as acts of love for Torah. Midrash Rabbah (Deut. 7:8) links Hashem’s love for Israel to their attachment to His lovers, the tzaddikim. Rambam notes that when one loves sages, one naturally grows in ahavat Hashem, since their lives are dedicated entirely to Him. This mitzvah transforms interpersonal affection into Divine love.

Bein Adam L’Makom – בֵּין אָדָם לְמָקוֹם

  • Rambam (Sefer HaMitzvot, Aseh 6) explains that “cleaving” is deveikut: a pathway to Hashem by associating with His servants. Sifrei (Eikev §49) explicitly interprets “ubo tidbak” as the command to attach to sages who represent Hashem’s presence in the world. Ramban (Deut. 11:22) emphasizes that by being near those who serve Hashem, one is drawn closer to the Source Himself — creating a direct Bein Adam L’Makom bond through mediated attachment.

Bein Adam L’Chavero – בֵּין אָדָם לַחֲבֵרוֹ

  • Sefer HaChinuch (434) notes that observing sages in daily interactions — fairness in trade, compassion in speech, generosity in giving — shapes one’s own conduct toward others. The Talmud (Sotah 14a) stresses that just as Hashem’s ways must be imitated, so too must the ways of His servants, making this mitzvah a training ground for interpersonal ethics. Midrash Rabbah (Ex. 34:1) highlights that the community learns derech eretz (proper conduct) from its sages, ensuring that Bein Adam L’Chavero is infused with Torah’s spirit.

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