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To love other Jews

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לֹֽא־תִקֹּ֤ם וְלֹֽא־תִטֹּר֙ אֶת־בְּנֵ֣י עַמֶּ֔ךָ וְאָֽהַבְתָּ֥ לְרֵעֲךָ֖ כָּמ֑וֹךָ אֲנִ֖י ה׳׃
Leviticus 19:18
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"You shall not take vengeance or bear a grudge against members of your people. Love your fellow [Israelite] as yourself: I am G-d."
Loving all types of Jews

This Mitzvah's Summary

מִצְוָה עֲשֵׂה - Positive Commandment
מִצְוָה לֹא תַעֲשֶׂה - Negative Commandment
Love – אַהֲבָה

This mitzvah commands a Jew to love another Jew with real goodwill, concern, dignity, and regard. It is not fulfilled by avoiding harm alone; it calls for a positive inner and outward orientation of אהבה — love, expressed in thought, speech, conduct, and covenantal responsibility.

The source of this mitzvah is the verse, “וְאָהַבְתָּ לְרֵעֲךָ כָּמוֹךָ” — “And you shall love your fellow as yourself” (Leviticus 19:18). The Torah places this command in the heart of Parshas Kedoshim, immediately after the prohibitions against revenge and bearing a grudge, showing that holiness is not built only through ritual discipline or personal restraint, but also through the quality of one’s relationship to fellow Jews.  

On the halachic plane, this mitzvah does not demand that a person produce identical emotional feeling toward every Jew at every moment. Rather, it obligates him to seek another Jew’s good, to care for his dignity, welfare, honor, and standing, and to treat his interests with seriousness rather than indifference. Chazal and the halachic tradition therefore express this mitzvah through concrete forms of conduct: speaking well of another, guarding his property and honor, helping where appropriate, refusing exploitation, and acting with the kind of goodwill one would hope to receive oneself. The mitzvah governs both inner posture and visible behavior. It is not only about emotion, but about a life-pattern of care.  

Conceptually, this mitzvah reaches deeper than ethics in the narrow sense. It teaches that the Jewish people are not merely a collection of isolated religious individuals who happen to share a covenant. They are a covenantal people bound to one another in shared destiny before Hashem. אהבת ישראל — love of fellow Jews is therefore not sentimental warmth alone. It is a Torah way of seeing another Jew: not as an external other, but as someone whose life, dignity, and spiritual standing matter to one’s own avodas Hashem. Relationship itself becomes part of serving Hashem, and interpersonal life becomes part of holiness. A nation cannot be holy if its members obey Hashem while remaining emotionally and morally detached from one another.

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This mitzvah forms a person who does not move through Jewish life as a private self surrounded by other private selves. The instinct to compare, dismiss, compete, or quietly enjoy distance does not disappear overnight, but it begins to lose its authority. A person slowly learns to see another Jew as someone whose dignity matters, whose burdens matter, whose honor matters, and whose success need not threaten his own. Identity begins to shift from private righteousness toward covenantal belonging. One no longer stands before Hashem only as an individual seeking personal growth, but as part of a people whose members must be carried with seriousness and care.  

That change reshapes ordinary life. Conversation becomes less sharp. Speech becomes more measured. Judgment becomes less quick and less impulsive. Encounters that might once have remained transactional begin to carry moral weight. A person becomes more careful with how he speaks, how he reacts, how he holds disagreement, and how much room he leaves in his heart for Jews who are difficult, different, or unimpressive. Love here is not naïveté. It is disciplined moral regard.  

This mitzvah is demanding because people are not easy to love consistently. Communities create friction. Families carry memory. Differences in observance, personality, class, and background can harden into suspicion, irritation, disappointment, and contempt. It is simpler to retreat into distance than to remain openhearted without becoming naïve. Yet that is exactly why this mitzvah is so foundational. It forms the capacity to live above those tensions, so that frustration does not become contempt and difference does not become estrangement. In a fragmented age, this mitzvah restores the possibility of real Jewish closeness without denying complexity. It produces not softness without boundaries, but a deeper and steadier covenantal heart.

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Rambam

  • Source: Sefer HaMitzvos, Aseh 206; Mishneh Torah, Hilchos De’os 6:3
  • Rambam defines this mitzvah as the obligation to love every member of Israel as oneself and therefore to speak in his praise, protect his property, desire his honor as one desires one’s own honor, and care about his dignity just as one cares about one’s own dignity and possessions. His presentation is exact and practical. He translates love into recognizable halachic form. The mitzvah is not measured by private feeling alone, but by whether goodwill becomes action, speech, and protective concern. Torah measures love by the way one carries another person in real life.

Sefer HaChinuch

  • Source: Sefer HaChinuch, Mitzvah 243
  • Sefer HaChinuch explains that the shoresh — root idea of the mitzvah is the establishment and preservation of peace and goodness among Israel, for Hashem desires the good settlement of His world and the good of His people. He frames the mitzvah as human formation: by training oneself to seek another person’s good, the heart itself is reshaped. The mitzvah does not only regulate behavior; it forms the inner world from which behavior emerges, moving a person beyond narrow self-interest and into habits of generosity of heart.

Talmud & Midrash

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Gemara

  • Source: Shabbos 31a
  • The Gemara records Hillel’s famous formulation: “What is hateful to you, do not do to another.” This does not replace the positive mitzvah of love, but clarifies its moral core in a form that is immediately legible. A person begins with the most basic standard of decency and from there learns what it means to carry another person’s vulnerability with seriousness. Love of one’s fellow includes refusing to treat another in the ways one would experience as painful, demeaning, or unjust.

Gemara

  • Source: Yerushalmi Nedarim 9:4
  • The Yerushalmi rejects revenge through the image of one hand injuring the other. Its insight is structural: Jews are not meant to experience each other as disconnected rivals. Harming another member of the covenant is, in a profound sense, self-wounding. This sharpens the inner logic of the mitzvah by framing Jewish fellowship as an organic whole rather than a loose association of individuals.

Gemara

  • Source: Pesachim 113b
  • The Gemara’s discussion of whom one may love and whom one may hate sharpens the boundaries of the mitzvah and shows that Torah love is not sentimental flattening. It exists within a larger moral and halachic world that still takes sin, accountability, and truth seriously. This sugya prevents the mitzvah from becoming vague softness while preserving its central demand of goodwill toward fellow Jews.

Gemara

  • Source: Bava Metzia 62a
  • The Gemara’s treatment of חייך קודמין — your life takes precedence clarifies that loving another as oneself does not mean erasing all distinctions between self and other or denying legitimate self-preservation. Rather, it means that within the halachic structure of life, one refuses selfishness and seeks the other’s good in a way that is real, serious, and bounded by Torah truth.

Sifra

  • Source: Sifra, Kedoshim, on Leviticus 19:18
  • The Sifra presents “ואהבת לרעך כמוך” as a direct and central command of interpersonal Torah life and presents it as a major principle of Torah. It teaches that the mitzvah requires real goodwill toward one’s fellow and not merely the absence of overt wrongdoing. Love is not one admirable middah among many, but a governing interpersonal axis through which broad areas of Torah life become intelligible.

Midrash

  • Source: Bereishis Rabbah 24:7
  • The Midrash presents “וְאָהַבְתָּ לְרֵעֲךָ כָּמוֹךָ” as a great principle of the Torah. That language shows the scale of the mitzvah. It is one of the Torah’s organizing moral pillars, because it shapes how a covenantal people is meant to live together.

Midrash

  • Source: Bereishis Rabbah on human dignity and shared creation
  • Midrashic treatments of human worth deepen this mitzvah by grounding it in shared creation and covenantal significance. Love of fellow Jews is not only social harmony. It reflects an awareness that each person carries dignity bestowed by Hashem.

Rishonim — Depth & Nuance

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Rashi

  • Source: Rashi to Leviticus 19:18
  • Rashi explains the verse in its plain interpersonal sense: one should love another as oneself. His contribution is the directness and local clarity of the mitzvah. The Torah is not speaking in abstraction. It is addressing the lived domain of ordinary interpersonal conduct, pushing beyond the prohibition of revenge and grudge-bearing toward a positive inner posture of goodwill.

Ramban

  • Source: Ramban to Leviticus 19:18
  • Ramban offers the famous nuance that the Torah cannot literally require identical emotional love in every sense, since a person naturally remains closest to his own life. Rather, it commands that one genuinely desire good for another without jealousy and without begrudging him success, honor, or blessing. This is essential, because it shifts the mitzvah from impossible emotional equivalence to purity of will, freedom from envy, and sincere goodwill.

Ibn Ezra

  • Source: Ibn Ezra to Leviticus 19:18
  • Ibn Ezra reads the verse as requiring a person to will good for his fellow with sincerity and fairness. His reading keeps the mitzvah grounded in ethical realism and proper social conduct. The command is not rhetorical exaggeration or detached spiritual language, but a directive that governs how one lives among other people.

Sforno

  • Source: Sforno to Leviticus 19:18
  • Sforno emphasizes action that promotes another person’s true good. Torah love is not flattery, indulgence, or emotional softness alone. It is moral concern that seeks a fellow Jew’s flourishing in what is genuinely good and refuses to exploit his weakness.

Rabbeinu Bachya

  • Source: Rabbeinu Bachya to Leviticus 19:18
  • Rabbeinu Bachya explains that this mitzvah guards the heart against hatred, envy, concealed hostility, and inward contempt. His contribution is the psychological depth of the verse: one may comply externally while still harboring inner fracture, resentment, or coldness. Torah knows that social life is often corroded less by open war than by inward moral decay, and so this mitzvah becomes a corrective at the level of the heart itself.

Abarbanel

  • Source: Abarbanel to Kedoshim
  • Abarbanel places this mitzvah in the broader ethical and social architecture of the parashah. It stands among laws that restrain ego, injury, revenge, and fracture, helping to build a just and holy community through intertwined interpersonal laws. This mitzvah is not an isolated private virtue. It is one of the structural forces that binds together fairness, restraint, and communal stability.

Rishonim — Conceptual

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Kuzari

  • Source: Kuzari, on Israel as a covenantal people
  • The Kuzari’s broader framework presents Israel not merely as individuals sharing a religion, but as a people joined by a distinct covenantal life. Within that system, אהבת ישראל is not optional warmth. It is a fitting response to the fact that Jews stand within one shared spiritual destiny.

Maharal

  • Source: Nesiv Ahavas Re’a; Derech Chaim
  • Maharal’s framework illuminates this mitzvah as an expression of the underlying unity of Israel. Unity is not sameness but ordered belonging within a greater whole. Love is therefore not only ethical generosity toward an external other. It reflects the deeper truth that the Jewish people are bound together at the level of essence and destiny. Division born of ego weakens form; mutual regard strengthens the wholeness through which Torah life can endure.

Ramban

  • Source: Ramban to Leviticus 19:18
  • On the conceptual plane, Ramban’s reading opposes kinah — envy — as the hidden force that corrodes fellowship. Another Jew’s success should not be experienced as one’s own diminishment. The mitzvah trains a person to remain whole in the face of another’s blessing, making it one of Torah’s deepest answers to communal fragmentation.

Rabbeinu Bachya

  • Source: Rabbeinu Bachya on Leviticus 19:18.
  • Rabbeinu Bachya treats this mitzvah as part of the Torah’s structure for repairing the heart so that social life can stand on something more than restraint. A society can avoid open harm and still remain inwardly fractured; love of one’s fellow supplies the deeper positive force that makes covenantal life warm rather than merely controlled.

Abarbanel

  • Source: Abarbanel to Kedoshim
  • Abarbanel understands the mitzvah within the Torah’s larger design for a holy society. Interpersonal mitzvos are not secondary moral additions to ritual life; they are part of the architecture of kedushah itself. A people cannot become holy while internally governed by contempt, jealousy, and indifference.

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Shulchan Aruch

  • Source: Shulchan Aruch, Choshen Mishpat 272:11; Orach Chaim 156; and related laws of honor, speech, conduct, returning lost objects, avoiding ona’ah, and guarding another’s property
  • Although the mitzvah is not codified in one single siman like a technical ritual command, halachic literature applies it across many areas of conduct, speech, responsibility, honesty, restoration, and concern for another’s material welfare. Torah does not leave love at the level of aspiration. It gives it legal embodiment in systems that train the heart through action.

Rema

  • Source: Rema across Choshen Mishpat and communal halachic norms; areas of communal and interpersonal practice
  • Rema reinforces that Torah society depends on mutual regard, fairness, decency, restraint, and communal responsibility. His contribution is not a separate definition of the mitzvah, but a practical reinforcement that love of one’s fellow must be legible in lived communal behavior, not confined to inward feeling.

Nosei Keilim

  • Source: Sma, Shach, and commentaries on Hilchos De’os 6:3 and related Choshen Mishpat obligations
  • The classical commentators clarify that desiring another’s honor, guarding his welfare, and speaking well of him are not parallel niceties but mutually reinforcing expressions of one mitzvah. Their role is to show that love becomes halachically intelligible when broken into actionable forms of conduct and responsibility.

Acharonim & Modern Torah Giants

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Netziv

  • Source: HaEmek Davar to Leviticus 19:18
  • Netziv reads the mitzvah within the broader covenantal life of Israel and sees interpersonal holiness as essential to the nation’s moral endurance. A Torah people cannot survive on law alone if its members are inwardly alienated from one another. Love becomes part of national continuity, not only private virtue.

Rav Shimshon Raphael Hirsch

  • Source: Commentary to Leviticus 19:18
  • Hirsch explains that this mitzvah demands that a person treat another’s aims, dignity, welfare, and good as morally weighty and not secondary to his own comfort. One does not truly love his fellow if he merely tolerates him. Torah love means granting the other full human seriousness in thought, speech, and conduct, using self-concern as the measure by which one learns how to care about another.

Malbim

  • Source: Malbim on Leviticus 19:18 / Kedoshim
  • Malbim emphasizes the precise transition from the prohibitions of revenge and bearing a grudge into the positive command of love. Torah does not stop at neutralizing hostility. It requires a positive transformation of the relationship. Love is not identical with refraining from hatred or maintaining courtesy; it is an affirmative stance of the soul.

Rav Kook

  • Source: Orot Yisrael and related writings
  • Rav Kook develops אהבת ישראל as a profound recognition of the holiness present within the collective soul of Israel. His contribution is expansive: love of fellow Jews is not only social virtue, but participation in the spiritual unity of the people through whom Hashem’s presence is revealed in history.

Meshech Chochmah

  • Source: Meshech Chochmah on Kedoshim / Leviticus 19
  • Meshech Chochmah frames the mitzvah as part of the Torah’s effort to produce a society in which moral responsibility flows horizontally between people and not only vertically toward Hashem. Holiness is not achieved by withdrawal from human relationship, but by sanctifying relationship itself. This mitzvah stands near the center of Torah’s moral order, not at its edges.

Rav Kook

  • Source: Rav Kook, themes of Ahavas Yisrael in Orot, Orot Yisrael, Orot HaKodesh, and related writings
  • Rav Kook understands love of fellow Jews as rooted in the deep spiritual unity of Israel, even when external life is fractured by disagreement, weakness, or difference. אהבת ישראל is not denial of flaws, but the ability to perceive the deeper holiness and destiny that remain present beneath them. The mitzvah becomes both a way of relating and a way of seeing.

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Baal Shem Tov

  • Source: Teachings attributed to the Baal Shem Tov on אהבת ישראל and the soul-root of every Jew
  • The Baal Shem Tov’s foundational insight is that love of another Jew flows from recognizing the Divine root within him. When a person sees only behavior, personality, or friction, love becomes unstable. But when he learns to perceive that every Jew carries a נשמה — soul bound to Hashem, the relationship changes. Contempt is often born from fixation on externals; אהבת ישראל begins when one learns to encounter the deeper point of Divine life within another Jew.

Tanya

  • Source: Tanya, chapter 32
  • Tanya famously grounds אהבת ישראל in the distinction between body and soul. Bodies divide people through ego, appetite, self-importance, and separateness; souls reveal their shared origin in one Father. Genuine love becomes possible when the soul is primary and the body secondary. The mitzvah’s inner mechanism is therefore not emotional force alone, but deeper identification with the soul than with the surface layers that provoke conflict.

Sfas Emes

  • Source: Sfas Emes to Kedoshim
  • Sfas Emes often explains that mitzvos reveal truths already planted within the soul. Applied here, the command does not create connection from nowhere. It uncovers the deeper belonging that already exists among Jews but is hidden by self-centeredness, habit, and external difference. The avodah is to remove obstruction so that the underlying bond can become active.

Shem MiShmuel

  • Source: Shem MiShmuel, Kedoshim, on communal holiness and inner unity
  • Shem MiShmuel explains that holiness in Israel depends on unification of hearts and not only shared observance. When rivalry and resentment dominate, the inner vessel of the people is weakened. Love is not decorative to holiness; it is one of its enabling conditions.

Ramchal

  • Source: Mesillas Yesharim, on נקיות and חסידות in interpersonal life
  • Ramchal helps explain the inner challenge of this mitzvah by showing how self-love quietly distorts moral life. A person excuses his own interests and diminishes the reality of others almost without noticing. Loving one’s fellow is therefore a refinement of the heart away from subtle selfishness, making one more fit for closeness to Hashem. Refined avodah cannot coexist with casual injury to others.

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This mitzvah appears in Parshas Kedoshim, in a chapter that gathers many of Torah’s core laws of holiness, restraint, justice, and interpersonal integrity. Its placement is foundational. The Torah does not move from neutrality to nowhere; it moves from the rejection of hatred, revenge, and grudge-bearing toward the building of love. That setting defines the mitzvah properly: it belongs to the Torah’s system of covenantal community, where holiness is expressed not only in ritual devotion but in the disciplined repair of human relationship.  

It also functions as a broad root mitzvah whose practical expression spreads across many areas of halacha and ethics. Guarding another’s dignity, protecting his property, helping him, speaking well of him, returning what is lost, dealing honestly, refusing to exploit him, and treating him as morally serious all emerge from this command. The mitzvah is thus both specific and expansive: one verse, but with wide-reaching consequences for how Jewish society is meant to function.

This command is closely related to Mitzvah 14 — to love the ger, yet the Torah distinguishes them. Love of fellow Jews is the general covenantal command within Israel, while love of the ger receives its own additional mitzvah because of the convert’s distinct place and vulnerability. That distinction clarifies the breadth and centrality of Mitzvah 13 without collapsing it into every adjacent interpersonal value.

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Love – אַהֲבָה

At the center of the mitzvah stands אַהֲבָה itself, not as sentiment alone but as a disciplined orientation toward another Jew’s good. In Torah terms, love means carrying another person’s dignity and welfare with real seriousness rather than leaving him outside the field of concern.

Between a person and their fellow - בֵּין אָדָם לַחֲבֵרוֹ

This mitzvah is one of the clearest expressions of בין אדם לחברו. It defines avodas Hashem through the way one relates to another person, teaching that spiritual life cannot be severed from relational responsibility.

Kindness - חֶסֶד

חֶסֶד emerges here because love that never moves outward remains incomplete. Once another Jew’s good matters inwardly, acts of generosity, patience, and practical care begin to follow as the natural outward form of that inner stance.

Compassion – רַחֲמִים

רַחֲמִים grows from the ability to see another Jew not as an interruption but as a person carrying struggle, dignity, and complexity. The mitzvah trains the heart away from harsh simplification and toward a more merciful reading of people.

Community – קְהִלָּה

אהבת ישראל builds קְהִלָּה by turning coexistence into covenantal fellowship. A Jewish community becomes more than a shared location or institution when its members learn to seek one another’s honor and good.

Speech – דָּבָר

Rambam’s emphasis on speaking in another’s praise makes דָּבָר a central tag here. Speech is one of the first places where love becomes visible, since language can either preserve another person’s dignity or quietly erode it.

Thought – מַחֲשָׁבָה

The mitzvah also reshapes מַחֲשָׁבָה by confronting envy, suspicion, and inward contempt. Before conduct changes fully, perception must change, and Torah demands a way of thinking about other Jews that is less ego-driven and more generous.

Holiness – קְדֻשָּׁה

Its location in Kedoshim shows that קדושה is inseparable from human relationship. Holiness does not emerge only through separation from the world, but through sanctifying the way one stands with and toward other people.

Humility - עֲנָוָה

ענוה is quietly built into this mitzvah because one of the greatest barriers to loving others is exaggerated self-importance. As the self loosens its demand to dominate every encounter, space opens for another person to matter more fully.

Between a person and G-d - בֵּין אָדָם לְמָקוֹם

Although the mitzvah governs relationship with other people, it is also deeply בין אדם למקום because it is commanded by Hashem and forms part of how one serves Him. Love of fellow Jews is not an alternative to Divine service; it is one of its clearest tests.

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