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To love converts

The Luchos - Ten Commandments
וַאֲהַבְתֶּ֖ם אֶת־הַגֵּ֑ר כִּֽי־גֵרִ֥ים הֱיִיתֶ֖ם בְּאֶ֥רֶץ מִצְרָֽיִם׃ - פָּרָשַׁת עֵקֶב
Deuteronomy 10:19 - "And you shall love the stranger, for you were strangers in the land of Egypt."

This Mitzvah's Summary

מִצְוָה עֲשֵׂה - Positive Commandment
מִצְוָה לֹא תַעֲשֶׂה - Negative Commandment
Between a person and their fellow – בֵּין אָדָם לַחֲבֵרוֹ

We are commanded to love converts, embracing them fully within the covenantal family of Israel.

This mitzvah expands the commandment to love one’s fellow Jew (Mitzvah 13) with a specific charge to love converts. Rambam (Hilchot De’ot 6:4) emphasizes that converts are owed a double measure of love — once through “you shall love your fellow” and again through “you shall love the convert.” Sefer HaChinuch (Mitzvah 431) explains that this ensures they are not marginalized, but instead welcomed with warmth and dignity into Israel’s covenant.

The Talmud (Bava Metzia 59b) teaches that the Torah warns against wronging a convert in no fewer than 36 (some say 46) places, underscoring the gravity of their protection. Rashi (Deut. 10:19) comments that Israel must show love because Hashem Himself loves the convert (cf. Deut. 10:18), clothing and sustaining them. Ramban explains that remembering our own experience as strangers in Egypt should awaken empathy and solidarity. Midrash Tanchuma (Mishpatim §9) links love for converts to Israel’s redemption, for just as Hashem redeemed us, so must we redeem them from loneliness and exclusion.

Commentary & Classical Explanation:

  • Rambam (Hilchot De’ot 6:4): The convert is doubly loved — as a fellow Jew and as a convert.
  • Sefer HaChinuch (431): Loving converts prevents marginalization and creates belonging.
  • Talmud (Bava Metzia 59b): Warns against wronging converts in 36–46 places, highlighting their vulnerability.
  • Rashi (Deut. 10:19): We love converts because Hashem Himself loves them.
  • Ramban (Deut. 10:19): Reminds us to draw from our Egyptian exile to build empathy.
  • Midrash Tanchuma (Mishpatim §9): Teaches that love for converts is part of Israel’s covenantal redemption.

Contrast with Loving Other Jews (Mitzvah 13):

  • Mitzvah 13 commands universal love among Jews. Mitzvah 14 emphasizes a special love for converts, who lack natural family ties in Israel.
  • Rambam explains that converts deserve “two loves” — as fellow Jews and as converts.
  • Sefer HaChinuch highlights that this extra mitzvah is a safeguard against exclusion, reminding Israel to go beyond equality toward embrace.

Parallel to Not Oppressing Converts (Mitzvah 18):

  • The Torah not only commands love but also forbids oppression of the convert.
  • Talmud (Bava Metzia 59b) notes that both mitzvot together protect converts from harm and ensure their flourishing.
  • Ramban explains that the negative command prevents injury, while the positive command builds belonging and warmth.
(Source: Chabad.org)

Applying this Mitzvah Today

Double Love

  • Rambam (Hilchot De’ot 6:4) emphasizes that a convert is commanded to be loved twice — once through this mitzvah and again through the general mitzvah of loving one’s fellow Jew (Mitzvah 13). In practice today, this means giving converts extraordinary warmth, respect, and inclusion.

Welcoming with Dignity

  • Talmud (Bava Metzia 59b) warns 36 times against wronging a convert. Applied today, this means being sensitive to their unique challenges, not highlighting their past, and ensuring they feel fully embraced in Jewish community life.

Community Inclusion

  • Sefer HaChinuch (Mitzvah 431) teaches the root is gratitude: the Jewish people were strangers in Egypt and must never make others feel like outsiders. Today, this calls for building communities that are genuinely inclusive, where converts find belonging.

Guarding Against Alienation

  • Ramban (Deut. 10:19) explains the mitzvah reflects Hashem’s love, for Hashem “loves the stranger, giving him bread and clothing.” Modern application: helping converts with practical needs — from financial support to mentorship in Jewish practice.

Living Kiddush Hashem

  • Midrash (Tanchuma, Mishpatim 9) says Hashem defends converts especially, as they left family and homeland to join His people. Today, showing visible respect to converts testifies to Torah’s compassion and sanctifies Hashem’s Name.

Strengthening Jewish Unity

  • Rashi (Exod. 22:20) links the mitzvah to Israel’s memory of being strangers. Contemporary practice: advocating for converts in halachic, social, and institutional settings ensures that Jewish unity is strengthened, not fractured.

Notes on this Mitzvah's Fundamentals

Love – אַהֲבָה

  • Rambam (Hilchot De’ot 6:4) rules that the convert is loved twice: once under the general mitzvah of “love your fellow” and again under “love the convert.” Rashi (Deut. 10:19) explains that this reflects Hashem’s own love for converts. Sefer HaChinuch (431) stresses that this love must be active, expressed in warmth, embrace, and care.

Kindness – חֶסֶד

  • Talmud (Bava Metzia 59b) emphasizes repeated commands to act kindly toward converts because they are more vulnerable. Rambam (De’ot 6:4) highlights that acts of kindness — hospitality, inclusion, support — are the living proof of love. Midrash (Mishpatim §9) teaches that Israel’s kindness to the convert mirrors Hashem’s kindness in sustaining the stranger.

Compassion – רַחֲמִים

  • Ramban (Deut. 10:19) teaches that recalling Israel’s own exile fosters compassion, for having been strangers, we know their pain. Talmud (Bava Metzia 59b) insists that harming a convert awakens Divine judgment, showing that compassion is not optional but covenantal. Sefer HaChinuch explains that compassion here means anticipating and easing the convert’s loneliness.

Community – קְהִלָּה

  • Midrash Tanchuma (Mishpatim §9) describes the convert as one who joins Israel’s covenant, requiring the kehilla to enfold them fully. Rambam adds that to fulfill this mitzvah, the community must treat converts not as outsiders but as integral members. Sefer HaChinuch stresses that love of converts strengthens Israel’s unity.

Humility – עֲנָוָה

  • Talmud (Pesachim 49b) warns against arrogance toward converts, stressing that humility is essential to welcome them sincerely. Rambam (De’ot 2:3) teaches humility as the root of all virtues, which here expresses itself in sensitivity and inclusion. Rashi notes that arrogance undermines love, while humility opens the heart.

Faith – אֱמוּנָה

  • Rambam (Moreh Nevuchim III:32) connects this mitzvah to faith by noting that converts testify to Hashem’s truth through their choice to join Israel. Midrash (Shemot Rabbah 19:4) praises converts for embracing Torah not by inheritance but by conviction. Loving them affirms our own faith in Hashem’s covenant.

Convert – גֵּר

  • Talmud (Bava Metzia 59b) states that the Torah warns about the convert more than any other category, showing their centrality in Hashem’s eyes. Rambam notes that they stand as living symbols of Israel’s mission: to spread Divine truth. Sefer HaChinuch (431) explains that this mitzvah preserves their dignity and strengthens their identity within Israel.

Bein Adam L’Chavero – בֵּין אָדָם לַחֲבֵרוֹ

  • Rambam (Hilchot De’ot 6:4) codifies that love of converts is fulfilled in interpersonal acts of respect, support, and inclusion. Midrash Tanchuma highlights that to wrong a convert is to wrong the covenant itself. Sefer HaChinuch notes that this mitzvah sets a standard of interpersonal ethics rooted in empathy and fairness.

Bein Adam L’Makom – בֵּין אָדָם לְמָקוֹם

  • Rashi (Deut. 10:18–19) connects love for the convert to Hashem’s love, for He Himself sustains and protects them. Rambam teaches that by loving converts, Israel imitates Hashem’s own actions, making this mitzvah a form of Divine service. Ramban explains that this deepens Israel’s relationship with Hashem, for welcoming converts is honoring His will.

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Love - אַהֲבָה

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Faith - אֱמוּנָה

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Between a person and their fellow - בֵּין אָדָם לַחֲבֵרוֹ

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