Mitzvah —
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To love converts

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וַאֲהַבְתֶּ֖ם אֶת־הַגֵּ֑ר כִּֽי־גֵרִ֥ים הֱיִיתֶ֖ם בְּאֶ֥רֶץ מִצְרָֽיִם׃
Deuteronomy 10:19
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"And you shall love the stranger, for you were strangers in the land of Egypt."
To love converts

This Mitzvah's Summary

מִצְוָה עֲשֵׂה - Positive Commandment
מִצְוָה לֹא תַעֲשֶׂה - Negative Commandment
Between a person and their fellow – בֵּין אָדָם לַחֲבֵרוֹ

This mitzvah commands a Jew to love the ger — the convert who has entered the covenant of Israel.

The source of this mitzvah is the verse, “וַאֲהַבְתֶּם אֶת הַגֵּר” — “And you shall love the convert” (Deuteronomy 10:19). The Torah does not leave the convert protected only by the general mitzvah to love fellow Jews. It gives an additional, explicit command to love the ger, recognizing the unique spiritual and human weight of his entry into the covenant.

On the halachic plane, this mitzvah requires more than refraining from harm. It obligates positive אהבה — love expressed through real regard, warmth, inclusion, dignity, and care. The convert is not to be treated as tolerated, peripheral, or perpetually suspect. Once he enters under the wings of the Shechinah, he stands within the people of Israel and must be loved in a distinct and deliberate way.

Conceptually, this mitzvah reveals something profound about Torah life. The ger is a person who left one world and entered another not through inheritance, but through truth, courage, and covenantal commitment. To love the ger is therefore to honor the power of Torah itself — its ability to draw a human being into holiness not by birth alone, but by willing attachment to Hashem and His people. This mitzvah protects the convert from loneliness, but it also refines the entire community, training it to respond to sincere covenantal commitment with love rather than guarded distance.

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(Source: Chabad.org)

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A person shaped by this mitzvah becomes more attentive to who is standing at the edge of belonging. The ger is not only someone with a technical status in halachah. He is often someone who has crossed deep emotional and social distance in order to stand with Hashem and His people. This mitzvah trains a Jew not to overlook that reality. He becomes more careful not to assume that belonging always feels natural or secure for another person simply because the halachic process is complete.

That awareness changes identity. A person begins to understand that Torah community is not measured only by how it treats those who grew up inside it, but also by how it receives those who entered it through sacrifice and conviction. The mitzvah forms a Jew who is less territorial, less socially lazy, and more capable of recognizing the dignity of another person’s spiritual courage.

It also changes lived experience. A person becomes slower to make someone feel like an outsider, slower to ask careless questions, slower to relate to a ger as a curiosity, background story, or exception. Instead, he learns to relate with warmth, steadiness, and quiet respect. Over time, this creates a community that feels more truthful, because love is being given where the Torah most explicitly commanded it.

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Rambam & Sefer HaChinuch

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Rambam

  • Source: Sefer HaMitzvos, Aseh 207; Mishneh Torah, Hilchos De’os 6:4
  • Rambam teaches that love of the ger is a separate positive commandment in addition to the general mitzvah of loving one’s fellow Jew. His formulation is crucial because it establishes that the Torah intentionally doubled this obligation. The ger is included within כלל ישראל and is also singled out for additional love, because Hashem Himself loves the ger.

Sefer HaChinuch

  • Source: Sefer HaChinuch, mitzvah of loving the ger
  • Sefer HaChinuch explains that the Torah commands this love because the ger may lack the natural supports of lineage and inherited belonging, and therefore needs stronger protection within the people. His contribution is deeply human. Love here is not abstract virtue, but the deliberate creation of security, warmth, and dignity for one who may otherwise be vulnerable.

Talmud & Midrash

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Gemara

  • Source: Bava Metzia 59b
  • Chazal famously stress the Torah’s repeated warnings regarding the ger — counting them as appearing dozens of times, with traditions citing 36 and some 46 instances — and explain that verbal mistreatment of the convert is especially severe. This sugya is foundational because it shows that the Torah sees the ger’s emotional vulnerability and guards it with unusual seriousness. The positive mitzvah of love must be read against that background of intensified moral responsibility.

Gemara

  • Source: Yevamos 47b
  • The Gemara describes the process of receiving a convert and makes clear that once a person enters the covenant sincerely and halachically, he is fully part of Israel. This teaching strengthens the mitzvah by removing ambiguity. Love of the ger is not partial tolerance of someone on the margins, but full-hearted recognition of one who truly joined the people.

Sifrei

  • Source: Sifrei to Deuteronomy 10:19
  • The Sifrei reads the command directly and emphasizes the Torah’s demand to love the ger. Its contribution is textual clarity. The mitzvah is explicit, not inferred.

Midrash

  • Source: Midrashic teachings on Hashem’s love for the ger
  • Midrash repeatedly highlights that Hashem loves the ger. This deepens the mitzvah greatly. To love the convert is not only an ethical courtesy. It is imitation of Hashem’s own love and concern.

Rishonim — Depth & Nuance

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Rashi

  • Source: Rashi to Deuteronomy 10:19; Exodus 22:20
  • Rashi explains the command in light of the ger’s condition, reminding the reader that the convert entered a world not naturally his and therefore must be treated with special care. Elsewhere, on Exodus 22:20, Rashi ties this sensitivity to Israel’s own memory of having been strangers. His contribution is directness and compassion. The Torah is speaking to real human vulnerability, and it asks Israel to respond מתוך זיכרון — out of remembered experience.

Ramban

  • Source: Ramban to Deuteronomy 10:18–19
  • Ramban places the mitzvah beside Hashem’s care for the widow, orphan, and those lacking natural protectors. His nuance is that the ger may stand in a socially exposed position, and therefore the Torah requires love, not merely restraint from harm. The community must actively counter vulnerability.

Ibn Ezra

  • Source: Ibn Ezra to Deuteronomy 10:19
  • Ibn Ezra keeps the mitzvah anchored in straightforward obligation. His contribution is clarity: once the ger joins Israel, the Torah commands love toward him and does not leave this to personal inclination.

Sforno

  • Source: Sforno to Deuteronomy 10:19
  • Sforno emphasizes that the ger chose truth and covenant despite lacking native inheritance within Israel. His nuance is powerful. The convert deserves love not in spite of his distinct story, but partly because that story reflects unusual courage and devotion.

Rabbeinu Bachya

  • Source: Rabbeinu Bachya to Deuteronomy 10:19
  • Rabbeinu Bachya underscores that the ger’s heart can be especially tender in matters of belonging and honor. His contribution deepens the emotional side of the mitzvah: careless distance wounds more deeply where belonging has already cost so much.

Abarbanel

  • Source: Abarbanel to Deuteronomy 10:19
  • Abarbanel situates the mitzvah within the Torah’s larger social structure, in which covenantal life is judged not only by ritual precision but by how it treats those who depend on its integrity. Love of the ger becomes a test of whether Torah society truly lives by its own values.

Rishonim — Conceptual

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Kuzari

  • Source: Kuzari, on joining the covenant and living within Divine service
  • The Kuzari’s broader framework helps explain why the ger occupies such a meaningful place in Torah. A convert is not simply changing identity markers. He is attaching himself to a covenantal people whose life is ordered around Hashem. To love the ger is therefore to honor the seriousness of chosen attachment to Divine truth.

Maharal

  • Source: Maharal, on belonging, form, and the moral order of Torah society
  • Maharal’s conceptual framework helps show that true community is not built only by bloodline or social instinct, but by alignment with higher form. The ger who enters under Torah has joined that form, and the community must recognize that reality. Love here protects proper order against social smallness.

Ramban

  • Source: Ramban to Deuteronomy 10:18–19
  • On the conceptual plane, Ramban helps show that the mitzvah is not only interpersonal softness. It is part of a Torah world in which those with less natural protection are given stronger covenantal protection. Love of the ger therefore reflects the moral architecture of Torah itself.

Abarbanel

  • Source: Abarbanel to Deuteronomy 10:19
  • Abarbanel’s system-level contribution is that Israel is measured by whether it can absorb sincere converts with dignity and love. A people that guards covenant but cannot lovingly receive those who join it has misunderstood its own calling.

Halacha

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Shulchan Aruch

  • Source: Choshen Mishpat and Yoreh De’ah through the laws concerning the ger
  • The halachic system gives strong protection to the convert, especially against verbal injury and degrading treatment. In practical terms, the mitzvah to love the ger demands that one speak with respect, avoid painful reminders of the past, and treat the ger with full dignity inside Jewish life.

Rema

  • Source: Halachic tradition on interpersonal conduct toward the ger
  • The Rema preserves the seriousness of these obligations within lived communal practice. The convert is not to be treated as permanently external or socially suspect. Halachic life requires honoring his full standing.

Nosei Keilim

  • Source: Commentarial tradition on the laws of loving and not oppressing the ger
  • The halachic tradition sharpens the relationship between positive love and negative restraint. One may not content himself with “not harming” the ger. Torah requires affirmative dignity, inclusion, and care.

Acharonim & Modern Torah Giants

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Chasam Sofer

  • Source: Teachings on covenantal sincerity and reception of the ger
  • Chasam Sofer deepens the seriousness of receiving the ger properly. One who entered sincerely under the yoke of Torah must not be treated as spiritually second-tier. His contribution is to strengthen the full covenantal dignity of the convert.

Netziv

  • Source: HaEmek Davar to Deuteronomy 10:19
  • Netziv expands the mitzvah into the moral identity of the Jewish people. A Torah nation must be recognizable not only by what it guards against, but by how warmly and truthfully it receives those who join it for the sake of Hashem.

Rav Shimshon Raphael Hirsch

  • Source: Hirsch to Deuteronomy 10:19
  • Hirsch explains that love of the ger reveals whether Israel truly understands its own history. A people once stranger and vulnerable must know how to extend real moral warmth to one who now stands in similar dependence. His contribution ties memory, ethics, and covenant together.

Malbim

  • Source: Malbim to Deuteronomy 10:19
  • Malbim’s careful distinctions help preserve the exactness of this mitzvah as separate from the general love of fellow Jews. His contribution is precision: the Torah did not repeat itself casually. It assigned the ger a distinct place in the moral structure of Israel.

Rav Kook

  • Source: Writings on holiness, souls drawn to Torah, and the expansion of Israel’s light
  • Rav Kook broadens the mitzvah by seeing the ger as one whose soul was drawn into Israel through a deep attraction to holiness. To love the ger is therefore to honor the movement of Divine truth in the world and the soul that answered it.

Meshech Chochmah

  • Source: Meshech Chochmah to Deuteronomy 10:19
  • Meshech Chochmah deepens the relationship between the ger’s vulnerability and Israel’s obligation. The mitzvah teaches that covenantal belonging must become visible in conduct, not remain theoretical.

Chassidic & Mussar Classics

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Baal Shem Tov

  • Source: Teachings on seeing the inner soul of another Jew
  • The Baal Shem Tov’s inner contribution is that a person must learn to see beyond biography and surface difference into the holy soul before him. That orientation is especially important with the ger, who can too easily be reduced to background rather than encountered as a living נשמה within Israel.

Tanya

  • Source: Tanya, on the unity of Jewish souls and the primacy of the soul over externals
  • Tanya helps explain why the ger must be loved fully. If the soul is primary, then inherited background does not define the deepest truth of the person. The convert who entered the covenant stands within the shared source of Jewish spiritual life.

Sfas Emes

  • Source: Sfas Emes on holiness and those drawn under the wings of the Shechinah
  • Sfas Emes presents the ger as one drawn by an inner truth toward holiness. The mitzvah to love the ger then becomes the community’s response to that revealed truth, receiving with warmth what Hashem has drawn near.

Ramchal

  • Source: Mesillas Yesharim, on refinement in interpersonal life and truthful honor
  • Ramchal’s framework shows that refined character includes the ability to honor another person without making his vulnerability the center of the relationship. Love of the ger requires this exact refinement: warmth without condescension, dignity without distance.

Background & Foundations

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This mitzvah appears in Deuteronomy in the context of Hashem’s justice, greatness, and special care for those who lack ordinary protection. The Torah says that Hashem loves the ger and then commands Israel to do the same. That sequence is essential. Love of the ger is not only a social ideal. It is imitation of Hashem. In the Rambam’s canonical count, Mitzvah 14 — To love converts follows immediately after the mitzvah to love fellow Jews, which makes the Torah’s intent even clearer. The ger is included in the general love of ישראל and then singled out again for additional love. The Torah is building a society in which covenantal courage is met with covenantal warmth.

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Convert - גֵּר

This tag stands at the center of the mitzvah because the Torah gives the ger a distinct place within its moral structure. The convert is not merely one more recipient of general decency, but the subject of a separate command of love.

Love – אַהֲבָה

אהבה is central because the mitzvah demands more than restraint from harm. It calls for positive warmth, regard, and closeness toward the ger as one who has entered the covenant.

Between a person and their fellow - בֵּין אָדָם לַחֲבֵרוֹ

This mitzvah clearly belongs to בין אדם לחברו because it governs how one Jew must treat another person within the community. The command becomes visible in conduct, tone, and welcome.

Kindness - חֶסֶד

חסד belongs here because the ger often stands in need of more than formal acceptance. The mitzvah asks for active goodness that makes belonging more secure and more human.

Compassion – רַחֲמִים

רחמים is relevant because the Torah recognizes the emotional exposure that can accompany conversion. Compassion allows a person to respond with care rather than social carelessness.

Community – קְהִלָּה

קהילה is central because this mitzvah helps define what kind of people Israel must be. A Torah community is tested not only by learning and observance, but by whether it lovingly receives those who join it.

Covenant – בְּרִית

ברית belongs here because the ger is loved as one who entered the covenant of Hashem and Israel. The mitzvah honors that entry and the seriousness it required.

Holiness – קְדֻשָּׁה

קדושה is relevant because the ger joined a holy people and attached himself to a holy covenant. Loving the ger means recognizing that this attachment is something weighty and sacred, not socially incidental.

Humility - עֲנָוָה

ענוה is strengthened by this mitzvah because one must let go of inherited social pride and learn to honor sincere spiritual greatness wherever it appears. The ger’s courage can expose the smallness of those who treat belonging as mere ownership.

Between a person and G-d - בֵּין אָדָם לְמָקוֹם

This mitzvah is also deeply בין אדם למקום because Hashem Himself declares His love for the ger and commands Israel to imitate that love. One loves the convert not only because it is humane, but because it is the will of Hashem.

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