

A Jew may not hate another Jew in his heart. This mitzvah forbids hidden resentment and teaches that even inner feelings toward another Jew must be brought under Torah.
The Torah commands: [לֹא תִשְׂנָא אֶת אָחִיךָ בִּלְבָבֶךָ — “You shall not hate your brother in your heart”] (Vayikra 19:17). This is the prohibition against שִׂנְאָה — hatred toward another Jew.
The Torah does not only forbid harming another person outwardly. It forbids holding hatred inwardly. A person may look calm, polite, or quiet, while inside he carries anger, resentment, jealousy, or hostility. The Torah teaches that the heart itself must be refined.
This mitzvah does not mean that a person must ignore wrongdoing or pretend everything is fine. The same pasuk continues with הוֹכֵחַ תּוֹכִיחַ — you shall surely rebuke. If another person has done wrong, the Torah gives a path: speak properly, clarify, repair, and rebuke when needed. But hatred may not be left hidden in the heart.
The mitzvah protects the bond of אַחְוָה — brotherhood inside Klal Yisrael. Another Jew is called “your brother.” Even when there is conflict, pain, or disagreement, the Torah does not allow the heart to become a place of silent hatred.
This mitzvah is extremely practical. It applies in families, friendships, shuls, schools, workplaces, communities, and online life. Hatred often begins quietly. A person feels hurt, misunderstood, disrespected, or wronged, and instead of addressing it, he stores it inside.
The Torah teaches that hidden hatred is dangerous. It can shape the way a person speaks, reacts, judges, and remembers. Even when no harsh words are spoken, the relationship becomes poisoned from within.
This mitzvah trains a person to notice what is happening inside his heart. He must ask: am I holding resentment? Am I hoping the other person fails? Am I replaying the hurt in a way that makes hatred stronger? Am I refusing a path toward repair?
Sometimes the correct response is gentle conversation. Sometimes it is תּוֹכָחָה — rebuke. Sometimes it is distance with dignity. Sometimes it is working internally to release anger. But the Torah does not allow hatred to become a hidden home inside the heart.
Mitzvah 15 appears in Parshas Kedoshim, in a cluster of mitzvos that build the inner and outer life of Jewish relationships. The same pasuk forbids hatred, commands rebuke, and warns not to carry sin because of another person. The next pasuk forbids revenge and grudge-bearing and commands loving one’s fellow.
This order is important. The Torah does not treat hatred as an isolated feeling. Hatred can lead to failed rebuke, revenge, grudges, lashon hara — harmful speech, embarrassment, and broken community. The mitzvah stops the damage at its root: the heart.
The mitzvah is also closely connected to Mitzvah 13, loving other Jews. Love is the positive direction. Not hating is the protective boundary. A person may not say he loves Klal Yisrael in general while allowing hatred toward an actual Jew to live inside him.
At the same time, Torah does not demand emotional dishonesty. If someone sinned or caused harm, the Torah gives tools: rebuke, clarification, distance when needed, and halachic guidance. What it forbids is letting hatred sit hidden and grow.
אַהֲבָה — love is the defining tag of this mitzvah because the prohibition against hatred protects the positive bond of אהבת ישראל — love of Israel. A heart free of hatred can move toward love.
בֵּין אָדָם לַחֲבֵרוֹ — between a person and another person is central because hatred damages the relationship even before any action is taken.
מַחֲשָׁבָה — thought is essential because this mitzvah governs inner life. A person must notice resentment, judgment, and hostility before they become speech or action.
דִּבּוּר — speech is relevant because the Torah’s alternative to hidden hatred is proper clarification and rebuke. Words can repair what silence poisons.
תּוֹכָחָה — rebuke belongs here because the same pasuk teaches that wrongdoing should be addressed properly, not stored as hatred in the heart.
רַחֲמִים — compassion helps a person see another Jew as more than the hurt he caused. It softens the heart and opens a path toward repair.
קְהִלָּה — community depends on inner trust. Hidden hatred breaks the invisible bonds that allow people to live, daven, learn, and build together.
נְקִימָה / נְטִירָה — revenge and grudge-bearing often grow from hatred that was never repaired. This mitzvah addresses the root before it becomes retaliation.
לָשׁוֹן הָרָע — harmful speech is related because hatred often seeks expression through negative talk. Guarding the heart helps guard the mouth.
עֲנָוָה — humility weakens hatred because a person stops making himself the center of every hurt. It allows him to judge more gently and seek repair.
קְדֻשָּׁה — holiness requires inner refinement. The Torah does not allow a person to appear holy outwardly while cultivating hatred inwardly.
בֵּין אָדָם לְמָקוֹם — between a person and Hashem also belongs here because Hashem commands the heart. Removing hatred is part of serving Him with inner honesty.



A Jew may not hate another Jew in his heart. This mitzvah forbids hidden resentment and teaches that even inner feelings toward another Jew must be brought under Torah.
The Torah commands: [לֹא תִשְׂנָא אֶת אָחִיךָ בִּלְבָבֶךָ — “You shall not hate your brother in your heart”] (Vayikra 19:17). This is the prohibition against שִׂנְאָה — hatred toward another Jew.
The Torah does not only forbid harming another person outwardly. It forbids holding hatred inwardly. A person may look calm, polite, or quiet, while inside he carries anger, resentment, jealousy, or hostility. The Torah teaches that the heart itself must be refined.
This mitzvah does not mean that a person must ignore wrongdoing or pretend everything is fine. The same pasuk continues with הוֹכֵחַ תּוֹכִיחַ — you shall surely rebuke. If another person has done wrong, the Torah gives a path: speak properly, clarify, repair, and rebuke when needed. But hatred may not be left hidden in the heart.
The mitzvah protects the bond of אַחְוָה — brotherhood inside Klal Yisrael. Another Jew is called “your brother.” Even when there is conflict, pain, or disagreement, the Torah does not allow the heart to become a place of silent hatred.
This mitzvah is extremely practical. It applies in families, friendships, shuls, schools, workplaces, communities, and online life. Hatred often begins quietly. A person feels hurt, misunderstood, disrespected, or wronged, and instead of addressing it, he stores it inside.
The Torah teaches that hidden hatred is dangerous. It can shape the way a person speaks, reacts, judges, and remembers. Even when no harsh words are spoken, the relationship becomes poisoned from within.
This mitzvah trains a person to notice what is happening inside his heart. He must ask: am I holding resentment? Am I hoping the other person fails? Am I replaying the hurt in a way that makes hatred stronger? Am I refusing a path toward repair?
Sometimes the correct response is gentle conversation. Sometimes it is תּוֹכָחָה — rebuke. Sometimes it is distance with dignity. Sometimes it is working internally to release anger. But the Torah does not allow hatred to become a hidden home inside the heart.

Mitzvah 15 appears in Parshas Kedoshim, in a cluster of mitzvos that build the inner and outer life of Jewish relationships. The same pasuk forbids hatred, commands rebuke, and warns not to carry sin because of another person. The next pasuk forbids revenge and grudge-bearing and commands loving one’s fellow.
This order is important. The Torah does not treat hatred as an isolated feeling. Hatred can lead to failed rebuke, revenge, grudges, lashon hara — harmful speech, embarrassment, and broken community. The mitzvah stops the damage at its root: the heart.
The mitzvah is also closely connected to Mitzvah 13, loving other Jews. Love is the positive direction. Not hating is the protective boundary. A person may not say he loves Klal Yisrael in general while allowing hatred toward an actual Jew to live inside him.
At the same time, Torah does not demand emotional dishonesty. If someone sinned or caused harm, the Torah gives tools: rebuke, clarification, distance when needed, and halachic guidance. What it forbids is letting hatred sit hidden and grow.



אַהֲבָה — love is the defining tag of this mitzvah because the prohibition against hatred protects the positive bond of אהבת ישראל — love of Israel. A heart free of hatred can move toward love.
בֵּין אָדָם לַחֲבֵרוֹ — between a person and another person is central because hatred damages the relationship even before any action is taken.
מַחֲשָׁבָה — thought is essential because this mitzvah governs inner life. A person must notice resentment, judgment, and hostility before they become speech or action.
דִּבּוּר — speech is relevant because the Torah’s alternative to hidden hatred is proper clarification and rebuke. Words can repair what silence poisons.
תּוֹכָחָה — rebuke belongs here because the same pasuk teaches that wrongdoing should be addressed properly, not stored as hatred in the heart.
רַחֲמִים — compassion helps a person see another Jew as more than the hurt he caused. It softens the heart and opens a path toward repair.
קְהִלָּה — community depends on inner trust. Hidden hatred breaks the invisible bonds that allow people to live, daven, learn, and build together.
נְקִימָה / נְטִירָה — revenge and grudge-bearing often grow from hatred that was never repaired. This mitzvah addresses the root before it becomes retaliation.
לָשׁוֹן הָרָע — harmful speech is related because hatred often seeks expression through negative talk. Guarding the heart helps guard the mouth.
עֲנָוָה — humility weakens hatred because a person stops making himself the center of every hurt. It allows him to judge more gently and seek repair.
קְדֻשָּׁה — holiness requires inner refinement. The Torah does not allow a person to appear holy outwardly while cultivating hatred inwardly.
בֵּין אָדָם לְמָקוֹם — between a person and Hashem also belongs here because Hashem commands the heart. Removing hatred is part of serving Him with inner honesty.

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