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Women must not wear men's clothing

The Luchos - Ten Commandments
לֹא־יִהְיֶ֤ה כְלִי־גֶ֙בֶר֙ עַל־אִשָּׁ֔ה וְלֹא־יִלְבַּ֥שׁ גֶּ֖בֶר שִׂמְלַ֣ת אִשָּׁ֑ה כִּ֧י תוֹעֲבַ֛ת יְהֹוָ֥ה אֱלֹהֶ֖יךָ כׇּל־עֹ֥שֵׂה אֵֽלֶּה׃ - פָּרָשַׁת כִּי־תֵצֵא
Deuteronomy 22:5 - "A man's attire shall not be on a woman, nor may a man wear a woman's garment because whoever does these [things] is an abomination to the Lord, your God."

This Mitzvah's Summary

מִצְוָה עֲשֵׂה - Positive Commandment
מִצְוָה לֹא תַעֲשֶׂה - Negative Commandment
Holiness – קְדוּשָּׁה

It is forbidden for a woman to wear men’s clothing or adorn herself in a way intended to appear as a man.

This mitzvah prohibits women from adopting men’s garments or accessories. The Torah frames the prohibition for both genders, each addressed separately to stress its seriousness. Rambam (Hilchot Avodat Kochavim 12:10) explains that the practice of gender-swapping clothing was associated with idolatrous festivals and immorality. The Talmud (Nazir 59a) clarifies that the issue is not clothing itself, but the intent — dressing for purposes of deception, licentiousness, or idolatry. Rashi (Deut. 22:5) explains that women dressing as men could gain access to spaces or activities reserved for men, leading to immorality. Ramban (Deut. 22:5) emphasizes that Hashem established clear distinctions between male and female in both nature and garments; erasing these boundaries undermines Divine order. Sefer HaChinuch (Mitzvah 543) explains that the mitzvah upholds modesty, moral clarity, and family integrity by protecting the lines Hashem established.

Commentary & Classical Explanation

  • Rambam (Hilchot Avodat Kochavim 12:10): Prohibits women from wearing men’s clothing, connecting the practice to idolatry and immorality.
  • Talmud (Nazir 59a): Clarifies that the prohibition focuses on intent — whether for immorality, deception, or pagan purposes.
  • Rashi (Deut. 22:5): Explains that a woman dressing as a man creates opportunities for sin and transgression.
  • Ramban (Deut. 22:5): Sees this mitzvah as safeguarding creation’s design and sanctity of gender boundaries.
  • Sefer HaChinuch (Mitzvah 543): Frames the mitzvah as protecting modesty and preventing moral corruption.

Contrast with Mitzvah 70 (Men must not wear women’s clothing)

  • Both mitzvot are parallel and derived from the same verse.
  • Rambam treats them as one lav applying equally to men and women, while Sefer HaChinuch counts them separately to stress their unique applications.
  • Each mitzvah addresses the risk of blurring roles from opposite directions, together reinforcing boundaries.

Parallel to Laws of Modesty and Family Integrity

  • Just as arayot (forbidden relationships) establish boundaries in intimacy, this mitzvah establishes boundaries in external appearance.
  • Ramban links both to Hashem’s creation of male and female “zachar unekeivah bara otam” (Genesis 1:27).
  • The Talmud (Moed Katan 17a) warns that removing distinctions opens the door to broader moral decline.
(Source: Chabad.org)

Applying this Mitzvah Today

Gender-neutral fashion and blurred lines

  • Modern fashion industries often erase distinctions between men’s and women’s clothing. Rambam’s warning (Avodat Kochavim 12:10) is directly relevant, as Torah requires boundaries to remain intact.

Social and political movements

  • Some movements promote cross-dressing or gender-fluid attire as social statements. Sefer HaChinuch (543) emphasizes that Torah’s goal is clarity and modesty, not erasure of differences.

Sports, military, and cultural uniforms

  • Halachic debate arises with women wearing pants, army uniforms, or clothing historically considered men’s. Poskim note that the prohibition depends on cultural norms: garments distinctly associated with men remain prohibited, while those that have become culturally neutral may not be. Still, the spirit of the mitzvah demands fidelity to gender distinction.

Entertainment and performance

  • Cross-dressing in plays, media, or entertainment falls under the prohibition when it normalizes gender-swapping. Rashi’s concern for deception applies even when the intent is not immorality but “performance.”

Professional pressures

  • In some professions, unisex attire is standard. Halacha guides Jews to uphold modesty while avoiding clothing that erases gender boundaries. Ramban reminds that maintaining Torah distinctions is part of sanctifying Hashem’s order in daily life.

Halachic nuance

  • As with men’s prohibition, poskim emphasize intent. If a woman wears an article for warmth, safety, or necessity — not for gender deception — many authorities permit. Still, outward resemblance to men’s attire remains restricted by Torah principle.

Notes on this Mitzvah's Fundamentals

Idolatry – עֲבוֹדָה זָרָה

  • Rambam (Avodat Kochavim 12:10) teaches that cross-dressing was practiced at idolatrous festivals. Women adopting men’s garments echoed pagan rituals, eroding holiness. This mitzvah distances Israel from such practices and reinforces separation from idolaters.

Holiness – קְדֻשָּׁה

  • Ramban (Deut. 22:5) stresses that holiness comes through preserving the natural order of creation. Distinct garments affirm Hashem’s design of male and female roles. By rejecting blurred appearances, women sanctify daily life through holiness in attire.

Reverence – יִרְאַת שָׁמַיִם

  • Talmud (Nazir 59a) warns that intent drives violation. Fear of Heaven requires avoiding even seemingly small acts that erode distinctions. Women practicing yirat shamayim maintain clothing boundaries as part of honoring Hashem’s word.

Faith – אֱמוּנָה

  • Sefer HaChinuch (543) links this mitzvah to emunah: copying foreign practices denies Hashem’s moral order. Women affirm faith by wearing attire aligned with Torah values, showing loyalty to Divine wisdom over cultural trends.

Between a person and G-d – בֵּין אָדָם לְמָקוֹם

  • This mitzvah is deeply personal, guiding how one dresses before Hashem. Rambam views such visible mitzvot as expressions of loyalty in all aspects of life, even attire. Women fulfill this by obeying the prohibition as covenantal devotion.

Community – קְהִלָּה

  • Communal identity is preserved when women dress distinctly from men. Midrash Tanchuma (Shoftim 8) emphasizes Israel’s separateness. Clothing is a public expression of community values, shaping Jewish presence in the world.

Family – מִשְׁפָּחָה

  • Ramban and Sefer HaChinuch connect this mitzvah to protecting family integrity. When gender lines blur, modesty and marriage structures weaken. Clear clothing distinctions support healthy family roles and spiritual order.

Lashes – מַלְקוֹת

  • Rambam rules this as a lav punishable by lashes. The Talmud (Nazir 59a; Sanhedrin 82a) affirms that women cross-dressing incurs malkot when done intentionally with warning. Sefer HaChinuch (543) confirms lashes as the penalty, since no higher punishment applies. This underscores halacha’s seriousness about maintaining gender distinctions.

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