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Not to embarrass others

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מִצְוָה עֲשֵׂה - Positive Commandment
מִצְוָה לֹא תַעֲשֶׂה - Negative Commandment
Between a person and their fellow – בֵּין אָדָם לַחֲבֵרוֹ

It is forbidden to shame or embarrass one another.

This mitzvah forbids shaming or humiliating others, whether in public or private. Embarrassment is compared by the Sages to spilling blood, as it causes deep emotional harm and lasting disgrace. True rebuke or correction must always be given with dignity, never at the expense of another’s honor.

Commentary & Classical Explanation:

  • Rambam (Hilchot De’ot 6:8): It is forbidden to shame a fellow Jew, and especially grave if done in public.
  • Sefer HaChinuch (Mitzvah 240): Preserving a person’s dignity is a foundation of Torah life; humiliation causes pain greater than physical suffering.
  • Talmud (Bava Metzia 58b): “One who whitens his fellow’s face [embarrasses him] in public has no share in the World to Come.”
(Source: Chabad.org)
לֹֽא־תִשְׂנָ֥א אֶת־אָחִ֖יךָ בִּלְבָבֶ֑ךָ הוֹכֵ֤חַ תּוֹכִ֙יחַ֙ אֶת־עֲמִיתֶ֔ךָ וְלֹא־תִשָּׂ֥א עָלָ֖יו חֵֽטְא׃ -
Leviticus 19:17 - "You shall not hate your brother in your heart. You shall surely rebuke your fellow, but you shall not bear a sin on his account."
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