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To reprove wrongdoers

The Luchos - Ten Commandments
לֹֽא־תִשְׂנָ֥א אֶת־אָחִ֖יךָ בִּלְבָבֶ֑ךָ הוֹכֵ֤חַ תּוֹכִ֙יחַ֙ אֶת־עֲמִיתֶ֔ךָ וְלֹא־תִשָּׂ֥א עָלָ֖יו חֵֽטְא׃ - פָּרָשַׁת קְדשִׁים
Leviticus 19:17 - "You shall not hate your brother in your heart. You shall surely rebuke your fellow, but you shall not bear a sin on his account."

This Mitzvah's Summary

מִצְוָה עֲשֵׂה - Positive Commandment
מִצְוָה לֹא תַעֲשֶׂה - Negative Commandment
Between a person and their fellow – בֵּין אָדָם לַחֲבֵרוֹ

One must reprove another Jew who is sinning or acting wrongly, to guide them back to proper conduct.

This mitzvah requires direct confrontation when a fellow Jew transgresses, with the intent of helping them correct their ways. Rambam (Hilchot De’ot 6:6–9) codifies that rebuke should be gentle at first, then firmer if necessary, always aiming to prevent sin. The Talmud (Arachin 16b) says that rebuke is a mark of love, not hatred, and failing to rebuke makes one complicit in another’s sin. Rashi (Lev. 19:17) explains that withholding rebuke while harboring resentment leads to sin in one’s own heart. Ramban emphasizes that rebuke must be rooted in love and truth, not cruelty. Sefer HaChinuch (Mitzvah 239) writes that rebuke protects community integrity, ensuring Torah values are upheld.

Commentary & Classical Explanation:

  • Rambam (Hilchot De’ot 6:6–9): Rebuke must be offered sincerely, privately first, and only escalate when necessary.
  • Sefer HaChinuch (239): Rebuke safeguards communal morality and prevents shared guilt.
  • Talmud (Arachin 16b): “Rebuke even one hundred times” — showing its persistence and value.
  • Rashi (Lev. 19:17): Rebuke clears the heart, preventing sin by resentment.
  • Ramban: Rebuke should be motivated by love, not superiority.
  • Midrash (Sifra Kedoshim §4): Rebuke is a mitzvah of responsibility, ensuring sin does not spread.

Contrast with Hatred (Mitzvah 15):

  • Hatred forbids harboring resentment in silence; rebuke channels frustration into constructive speech.
  • Rambam: Rebuke transforms destructive emotion into healing dialogue.
  • Talmud (Arachin 16b): Rebuke is the antidote to hatred, preventing sinat chinam.

Parallel to Love of Fellow Jews (Mitzvah 13):

  • Sefer HaChinuch: Love demands rebuke, since ignoring sin allows harm to persist.
  • Midrash (Tanchuma Kedoshim §10): Just as Hashem reproves Israel out of love, so too must Israel reprove one another.
  • Rashi: Rebuke is an expression of true ahava, not rejection.
(Source: Chabad.org)

Applying this Mitzvah Today

Constructive Confrontation

  • Rambam (Hilchot De’ot 6:7) rules that when someone wrongs you, the mitzvah is to reprove them gently and privately, not to harbor resentment. Today this translates into addressing issues directly but respectfully — preventing grudges and fostering resolution.

Preventing Sin in Community

  • Sefer HaChinuch (Mitzvah 239) explains that this mitzvah cultivates communal holiness by ensuring wrongdoings are not ignored. Applied today, it calls for leaders, parents, and peers to lovingly guide others back to the right path rather than enabling harmful behavior.

Tone and Sensitivity

  • Talmud (Arachin 16b) warns that rebuke must be given with care, “until they do not shame him.” Today, this requires emotional intelligence — correcting others with empathy, framing critique as support rather than condemnation.

Accountability Culture

  • Ramban (Lev. 19:17) says true rebuke removes hatred and restores peace. Modern life often avoids confrontation; this mitzvah demands accountability, encouraging honest conversations that strengthen relationships and communities.

Courage to Speak Up

  • Rashi (Lev. 19:17) comments that failing to rebuke means sharing in the sin. In today’s context, this applies to remaining silent in the face of injustice, bullying, or corruption. The mitzvah obligates Jews to speak out, even when it’s uncomfortable.

Balancing Truth and Peace

  • Midrash (Sifra Kedoshim §4) emphasizes that rebuke must aim at peace, not humiliation. Contemporary application: blending truth with love — guiding others while maintaining dignity and preserving harmony.

Notes on this Mitzvah's Fundamentals

Love – אַהֲבָה

  • Rambam (Hilchot De’ot 6:7) teaches that rebuke is a form of love, since ignoring sin is cruelty. Talmud (Arachin 16b) insists that rebuke must be repeated “even a hundred times,” showing that love is patient and persistent. Rashi explains that rebuke prevents hatred from festering, thus preserving love.

Rebuke – תּוֹכָחָה

  • Sefer HaChinuch (239) emphasizes that rebuke prevents shared guilt, ensuring Torah’s values remain intact. Ramban stresses that rebuke is only valid when spoken with humility and love. Midrash (Sifra Kedoshim §4) portrays rebuke as a communal responsibility — ignoring sin is itself sinful.

Kindness – חֶסֶד

  • Talmud (Shabbat 54b) explains that those who can protest wrongdoing but remain silent bear responsibility. Rambam explains this silence is cruelty, while rebuke is kindness, guiding one away from harm. Midrash Rabbah (Lev. 19:17) portrays rebuke as the greatest chesed, preventing sin and its consequences.

Compassion – רַחֲמִים

  • Ramban notes that compassion softens rebuke, ensuring it heals rather than humiliates. Talmud (Arachin 16b) warns against embarrassing a sinner, equating shame to bloodshed. Sefer HaChinuch teaches that true compassion is guiding others to improve without breaking their dignity.

Justice – צֶדֶק

  • Rashi explains that failing to rebuke allows injustice to continue unchecked. Rambam notes that rebuke fulfills the command of “tzedek tzedek tirdof,” since it upholds fairness in the community. Talmud (Shabbat 54b) says leaders who do not rebuke are held accountable for communal sins.

Speech – דָּבָר

  • Rambam (Hilchot De’ot 6:6) emphasizes rebuke must be expressed with words — silence is sin. Talmud (Arachin 16b) explains that speech heals hidden hatred. Midrash Rabbah adds that speech in rebuke transforms anger into dialogue and repentance.

Humility – עֲנָוָה

  • Rambam rules that rebuke must be given privately and humbly, without embarrassing others. Talmud (Arachin 16b) compares humiliating others to murder, teaching that humility in tone is essential. Midrash Tanchuma (Kedoshim §10) portrays Hashem Himself as rebuking Israel in mercy and humility.

Community – קְהִלָּה

  • Sefer HaChinuch writes that rebuke sustains communal integrity by preventing moral decay. Talmud (Shabbat 54b) states that entire communities are held accountable when no one rebukes. Midrash Rabbah (Lev. 19:17) adds that rebuke ensures Israel remains a holy kehilla.

Bein Adam L’Chavero – בֵּין אָדָם לַחֲבֵרוֹ

  • Ramban explains that rebuke protects relationships by clearing grievances honestly. Talmud (Arachin 16b) shows that rebuke builds trust, while silence creates hypocrisy. Sefer HaChinuch adds that this mitzvah fosters responsibility for each other’s wellbeing.

Bein Adam L’Makom – בֵּין אָדָם לְמָקוֹם

  • Rambam (Hilchot De’ot 6:8) stresses that ignoring sin leads to Divine judgment not only for the sinner but also for the bystander. Midrash (Sifra Kedoshim §4) portrays rebuke as cleaving to Hashem’s justice. Talmud (Shabbat 54b) teaches that rebuke reflects loyalty to Hashem’s covenant.

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Love - אַהֲבָה

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Speech - דָּבָר

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Between a person and their fellow - בֵּין אָדָם לַחֲבֵרוֹ

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