

A person may not hurt another person with words. This mitzvah forbids insults, shaming, painful reminders, manipulative speech, and any verbal harm that wounds another person’s dignity.
The Torah commands: [וְלֹא תוֹנוּ אִישׁ אֶת עֲמִיתוֹ — “You shall not wrong one another”] (Vayikra 25:17). Chazal explain that this pasuk refers to אוֹנָאַת דְּבָרִים — verbal wronging. This is different from אוֹנָאַת מָמוֹן — monetary exploitation, which was commanded earlier.
אוֹנָאַת דְּבָרִים — verbal wronging includes words that cause emotional pain, embarrassment, fear, pressure, shame, or distress. A person may not remind a baal teshuvah of his past sins, tell a convert about his family background in a hurtful way, ask a seller about a price when he has no intention to buy, or speak in a way that knowingly wounds another person.
The Torah ends the pasuk with [וְיָרֵאתָ מֵאֱלֹקֶיךָ — “You shall fear your G-d”]. This teaches that speech can be hidden. A person may claim, “I was only joking,” or “I did not mean anything.” Hashem knows the heart. The mitzvah trains a Jew to use דִּבּוּר — speech with care, honesty, and רחמים — compassion.
This mitzvah is constant. It applies at home, in school, in shul, at work, online, in texting, in comments, in jokes, and in business conversations. Wherever words can reach another person, this mitzvah applies.
Speech can build a person or break him. A sharp comment may take only a moment, but it can remain in someone’s heart for years. The Torah teaches that emotional harm is real harm. A person’s dignity, confidence, and inner peace matter deeply before Hashem.
This mitzvah does not mean that a person may never correct, disagree, or speak honestly. Torah allows תּוֹכָחָה — rebuke when it is needed and given properly. But rebuke must be for the other person’s benefit, not for anger, control, mockery, or humiliation.
In daily life, this mitzvah forms a person who pauses before speaking. It teaches him to ask whether his words are true, necessary, and gentle enough for the moment. A Torah mouth does not only avoid lies. It avoids cruelty.
Mitzvah 501 follows Mitzvah 500. First the Torah forbids אוֹנָאַת מָמוֹן — monetary exploitation. Then it forbids אוֹנָאַת דְּבָרִים — verbal wronging. The order teaches that Torah protects both a person’s property and his dignity.
This mitzvah belongs to the broader world of interpersonal Torah. It is closely related to the prohibitions against embarrassing others, hating another Jew, gossip, slander, revenge, and bearing a grudge. But it has its own focus: words that directly cause pain, even without spreading information to others.
The phrase “וְיָרֵאתָ מֵאֱלֹקֶיךָ” gives the mitzvah its inner foundation. A person can hide behind tone, jokes, cleverness, or denial. Hashem knows whether the words were meant to help or to harm. The mitzvah therefore builds a speech-life rooted in יִרְאַת שָׁמַיִם — awe of Heaven.
דִּבּוּר — speech is the defining tag of this mitzvah. The Torah commands a person to guard words so they do not become tools of pain, shame, pressure, or humiliation.
בֵּין אָדָם לַחֲבֵרוֹ — between a person and another person is central because this mitzvah protects another person’s dignity and emotional well-being.
רַחֲמִים — compassion guides a person to feel the possible pain his words may cause. The mitzvah trains sensitivity before speaking.
צֶדֶק — justice applies not only to money and courts. It also applies to speech. It is unjust to use words to weaken, trap, or humiliate another person.
קְהִלָּה — community depends on safe and respectful speech. When words become sharp and harmful, trust breaks down. This mitzvah protects the atmosphere of Jewish life.
יִרְאַת שָׁמַיִם — awe of Heaven is essential because verbal wronging is often hidden. Hashem knows the intent behind the words, even when others do not.
אַהֲבָה — love for another Jew prevents a person from using speech as a weapon. A loving person wants his words to strengthen, not wound.
מַחֲשָׁבָה — thought comes before speech. This mitzvah trains a person to pause, consider the other person’s feelings, and choose words carefully.
תְּשׁוּבָה — repentance is needed when speech has caused harm. A person must repair what he can, ask forgiveness when appropriate, and train his mouth toward kindness.
עֲנָוָה — humility helps a person avoid using words to dominate others. A humble person does not need to make someone else feel small.
לָשׁוֹן הָרָע — gossip and slander are related because harmful speech often spreads pain beyond the first listener. This mitzvah focuses on direct verbal harm, while lashon hara protects against damaging speech about others.
בֵּין אָדָם לְמָקוֹם — between a person and Hashem also belongs here because the Torah attaches this mitzvah to fear of Hashem. Guarding speech is part of standing before Him.



A person may not hurt another person with words. This mitzvah forbids insults, shaming, painful reminders, manipulative speech, and any verbal harm that wounds another person’s dignity.
The Torah commands: [וְלֹא תוֹנוּ אִישׁ אֶת עֲמִיתוֹ — “You shall not wrong one another”] (Vayikra 25:17). Chazal explain that this pasuk refers to אוֹנָאַת דְּבָרִים — verbal wronging. This is different from אוֹנָאַת מָמוֹן — monetary exploitation, which was commanded earlier.
אוֹנָאַת דְּבָרִים — verbal wronging includes words that cause emotional pain, embarrassment, fear, pressure, shame, or distress. A person may not remind a baal teshuvah of his past sins, tell a convert about his family background in a hurtful way, ask a seller about a price when he has no intention to buy, or speak in a way that knowingly wounds another person.
The Torah ends the pasuk with [וְיָרֵאתָ מֵאֱלֹקֶיךָ — “You shall fear your G-d”]. This teaches that speech can be hidden. A person may claim, “I was only joking,” or “I did not mean anything.” Hashem knows the heart. The mitzvah trains a Jew to use דִּבּוּר — speech with care, honesty, and רחמים — compassion.
This mitzvah is constant. It applies at home, in school, in shul, at work, online, in texting, in comments, in jokes, and in business conversations. Wherever words can reach another person, this mitzvah applies.
Speech can build a person or break him. A sharp comment may take only a moment, but it can remain in someone’s heart for years. The Torah teaches that emotional harm is real harm. A person’s dignity, confidence, and inner peace matter deeply before Hashem.
This mitzvah does not mean that a person may never correct, disagree, or speak honestly. Torah allows תּוֹכָחָה — rebuke when it is needed and given properly. But rebuke must be for the other person’s benefit, not for anger, control, mockery, or humiliation.
In daily life, this mitzvah forms a person who pauses before speaking. It teaches him to ask whether his words are true, necessary, and gentle enough for the moment. A Torah mouth does not only avoid lies. It avoids cruelty.

Mitzvah 501 follows Mitzvah 500. First the Torah forbids אוֹנָאַת מָמוֹן — monetary exploitation. Then it forbids אוֹנָאַת דְּבָרִים — verbal wronging. The order teaches that Torah protects both a person’s property and his dignity.
This mitzvah belongs to the broader world of interpersonal Torah. It is closely related to the prohibitions against embarrassing others, hating another Jew, gossip, slander, revenge, and bearing a grudge. But it has its own focus: words that directly cause pain, even without spreading information to others.
The phrase “וְיָרֵאתָ מֵאֱלֹקֶיךָ” gives the mitzvah its inner foundation. A person can hide behind tone, jokes, cleverness, or denial. Hashem knows whether the words were meant to help or to harm. The mitzvah therefore builds a speech-life rooted in יִרְאַת שָׁמַיִם — awe of Heaven.



דִּבּוּר — speech is the defining tag of this mitzvah. The Torah commands a person to guard words so they do not become tools of pain, shame, pressure, or humiliation.
בֵּין אָדָם לַחֲבֵרוֹ — between a person and another person is central because this mitzvah protects another person’s dignity and emotional well-being.
רַחֲמִים — compassion guides a person to feel the possible pain his words may cause. The mitzvah trains sensitivity before speaking.
צֶדֶק — justice applies not only to money and courts. It also applies to speech. It is unjust to use words to weaken, trap, or humiliate another person.
קְהִלָּה — community depends on safe and respectful speech. When words become sharp and harmful, trust breaks down. This mitzvah protects the atmosphere of Jewish life.
יִרְאַת שָׁמַיִם — awe of Heaven is essential because verbal wronging is often hidden. Hashem knows the intent behind the words, even when others do not.
אַהֲבָה — love for another Jew prevents a person from using speech as a weapon. A loving person wants his words to strengthen, not wound.
מַחֲשָׁבָה — thought comes before speech. This mitzvah trains a person to pause, consider the other person’s feelings, and choose words carefully.
תְּשׁוּבָה — repentance is needed when speech has caused harm. A person must repair what he can, ask forgiveness when appropriate, and train his mouth toward kindness.
עֲנָוָה — humility helps a person avoid using words to dominate others. A humble person does not need to make someone else feel small.
לָשׁוֹן הָרָע — gossip and slander are related because harmful speech often spreads pain beyond the first listener. This mitzvah focuses on direct verbal harm, while lashon hara protects against damaging speech about others.
בֵּין אָדָם לְמָקוֹם — between a person and Hashem also belongs here because the Torah attaches this mitzvah to fear of Hashem. Guarding speech is part of standing before Him.

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